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I’m Aging Sexy
In December of 2021 at the end of what felt like a very long day of being a school social worker, I stood in front of an ever so temperamental copy machine trying as was quite common, to release paper jams. My... read more »
So You Say You Wanna Date An Older Woman Part 1
So you say that you would like to date an older woman. I get the appeal, I really do. It starts with her openness, doesn't it? Her ability to be vulnerable in a way you’ve never quite experienced, it’s not entirely without... read more »
Let’s Talk About Sex: Part I “This Is Me”
I’ve been saying for awhile that I wanted to start talking about sex, but then I didn’t. The thing is I have soooo much to say on the subject. As I approach my 50th birthday, I simply have so much to say. ... read more »
The Truth You’ve Always Known
I’ve had so many ideas recently for blog posts and even one or two bigger dreams and yet lately I’ve found myself frozen. I haven’t moved forward in the way that I had hoped. That happens doesn’t it? Sometimes we want so... read more »
I Felt His Heartbeat
I was lying in bed one morning recently next to the man I’m dating and he slipped his hand under my thigh as he began to doze off. I felt his heartbeat pulsating from his wrist. It was one of the strongest... read more »
I Love Your Foot Fetish
I never knew I had pretty feet, I swear I didn't. I would go so far as to say that I thought I had ugly feet and tried to hide them throughout much of my life. My best friends growing up were... read more »
Why I Will Not Encourage You to Get Married… A Letter To My Sons
Dear Jacob and Ethan, You guys are now 15 and 12 and have been through some big changes in your short lives. Although we are living through the COVID 19 Pandemic at this very moment, I still think the... read more »
“Aging Sexy” Please Don’t Call Me A Cougar
Ever since my Instagram started to take off a few months ago I've noticed a lil trend. Younger men think it's a compliment when they call me a Cougar! "You're the hottest Cougar on Instagram" is my personal favorite. I definitely would... read more »